Now, before I am accused of condoning cheating (by guess who? Men.)the post is mainly pointing out the fact that the dynamics in marriage have changed. In the past, it used to be that the men went out to work and the women were housewives or had some petty business on the side. This type of lifestyle does not leave room for any type of questioning. It was always a "yes sir" situation. Abi you no wan collect house allowi? The women were repressed because they didn't have any real means of livelihood other than their husbands and men being what they are, exploited this situation to their advantage. The women had to put up and shut up or not put up and vamoosse to their father's house. Period.
Nowadays, you have women being nominated for men of the year awards, running multi- billion naira conglomerates, having successful businesses and careers. All I have to say is: gentlemen, welcome to the jet age! Take away the financial insecurity and you will find that women have A LOT to say about how they are treated.A lot of women are fed up of being treated like crap and it only takes one "friend" to sow the seed of infidelity. The minute the seed is sown, it takes root and it is only the strongest of women that can resist the lure of the forbidden fruit. Young men are about and aplenty, looking for a quick buck, they will service your wife's engine to her heart's content and she will be seeing them for 500miles servicing every other week. Men do not want to believe that this can happen to them but it can and it probably will if you continue to treat your wives badly. Plus why do men find it hard to believe that just as there are little, for want of a better word, heifers, out there, willing to provide them a service for some money, there are also little porn stars out there, tired of hustling and wanting some dough?
Having exhausted my glee, let's be real; cheating for whatever reason, is disgusting business. I'm still also a proponent of the old school in saying that when a women does it, it seems somehow worse. I feel it is because you stand to loose a lot. In a society where it is important for women to be seen as chaste, it is quite hard to say what is good for the goose is good for the gander. Also, I find that women who cheat on their husbands often cheat on good men. Men that really have done nothing to deserve that type of treatment. The chilled bruthas. So mostly they end up hurting men who do not deserve it, then the marriage ends and a bitter,jaded man is expelled from the bowels of that marriage making the work harder for single girls like me. Warn yourselves o. Just playing.
I cannot, however deny, that I am happy that the tide is turning on men. I hope this post instils the fear of God in your heart. And if it hasn't, I hope this will; you can NEVER, EVER in your life, be as vindictive as a woman scorned and you will never in your life pray for a vindictive woman. Women are pure evil under the sweet smiles and luscious bodies. When a woman has it in for you, the sky is just the begining. She will kiss you with the same mouth she has used to mic check another dudes thingy, minutes after she finished mic checking! Think about that for a minute. Treat us right or you will get what is coming to you. Don't start shit and there won't be shit "bad 70s movies actor voice" *mwaaaaahhhaaaahhhaaaahhhaaaaa* *insert movies thunder clapping and lightning here*